Fellowship
Youth Pastor Kelly
Knows Meaning
of Leadership
The
key to successful leadership today is influence, not authority.
-Kenneth Blanchard
“He
has done such a great job here.
I really
respect and admire Kelvin,” said Paul Downing, the Pastor at
Continuing Lessons
In
college, Kelly was a record breaking track star and he believes his coach John
McDonald taught him more than just athletics.
“He took track, which is typically an individual sport, and he turned it
into a team sport; and a successful team sport at that.”
Kelly
uses what McDonald passed on to him in his ministry work.
“Just like every athlete in a sport, every
teenager that I work with is different; but we are all united for the greater
good of the group for a specific goal,” said Kelly.
“I often share with our young people that it
does take drive, passion and sometimes even pain to become successful.”
After
college, sports continued to play a role in Kelly’s life.
Eventually he got into ministry work.
Since he was such a tremendous athlete,
Zachary High quickly recruited him to help with their sports teams.
Being a coach earns a certain respect, which,
in Kelly’s case coaching led to trust.
Since starting at Zachary High, Kelly has become a mentor to many students
there.
Father figures
“I
think that all of the father figures in my life influenced me to become
involved in youth ministry.
I’ve been
blessed to have someone there for me at all key steps of my life, and they have
all helped me to be a better man. I really appreciate that.
So I try to be sort of a father figure to the
young people I work with,” he said.
It
is not all fun and games at the youth ministry at Fellowship.
Kelly believes that “you have to tell the
truth to gain trust, even if the truth hurts.”
But he stresses the idea that God loves the things you dislike about
yourself most.
“I
also try to pass on a good real-life lesson that my mom taught me,” said Kelly.
“She taught me how to suffer, and how to walk out and not be burned.”
Remain Faithful
Kelly
said the most important thing he hopes the kids take from this lesson is that you
have to remain faithful all the time; especially when what you want to quit
most.
He lives this daily.
“I lost my house in Hurricane Gustav, but I
wanted to stay in this area.
I am so
glad I did.
It has been so interesting
to see how everyone’s lives have played out since the storm.”
Kelly
has produced great leaders from his youth group, including Zachary High
football captains and outstanding baseball players.
One of them has even become the president of
the Board of Directors of Fellowship Church.
“I
believe that God will complete what we start, and it’s amazing to see the young
people I work with growing and succeeding,” he said. “Their influence on me has been tremendous.”